Being a Leader is also a servant

Have you notice that being a leader is also a servant? Yes, being a leader is also a servant. Even if you're just a leader of a small organization but still, it's not easy to handle and to lead the organization well. Leader plays a vital role in an organization it's because most of the members are always depending to their leader. In my own point of view, a member can't do anything without the presence of a leader. We know that LEADERSHIP has been described as the “process of social influence in which one person can enlist the aid and support of others in the accomplishment of a common task”. A leader must posses integrity. Also, a person could be a leader if he/she is responsible enough to do work and a well grown person.

Who Am I?

What is Identity?
Identity is the sameness some individuals share to make up the same kind or universal. The difference or character that marks off an individual from the rest of the same kind. A name of a person—the mask or appearance one presents to the world—by which one is known.

What I've learned about Islam Religion.......

As what I know from the Muslims , the word "Islam"itself means"Submission to Allah". I learned the key components of Islam such as the Ramadan of the Muslims in which they are refraining in eating, smoking, drinking and refraining in making sins. During the Ramadan, most of the Muslims have their fasting for almost 28-30 days because they believe that fasting is a great sacrifice which can help them in asking forgiveness to their God Allah. They only celebrate this event once a year. As compared to the solar calendar, the dates of Ramadan vary, moving forward about ten days each year as it is a moving holiday depending on the moon. Hajj is their fifth pillars of faith in which a millions of Muslims make an annual pilgrimage to Mecca. For me, Muslims are very religious. According to my classmate, their Qur'an is the continuation of the Holy Bible of the Catholic.

Five Pillars of Faith and Major Religious Events of Islam

Islam has their Five Pillars of Faith and Major Religious Events, these are the following:
Five Pillars of Faith:

1. The recital Shadahah the there is only one God
2. Mohammed is his prophet
3. Praying 5 times a day
4. Giving of alms to the poor
5. Pilgrimage in Mecca

The key components of Islam: Ramadan and Hajj

The key components of Islam:

1. Ramadan - the ninth month of the Islamic calendar. This is the Islamic month of fasting, which Muslims are refrain from eating, smoking, drinking, and indulging in anything that is in excess or ill-natured from dawn until sunset. The month of Ramadan is within 28-30 days. Fasting is meant to teach Muslims patience, modesty and spirituality. Ramadan is a time for Muslims to fast for the sake of God (Arabic) and to offer more prayer than usual.

Behind the Clouds

Hope is an answer to a question we haven't yet learn how to ask. But what if your hope turns to hopeless? well it's a scenario, indeed.

One of the circumstance of my life is one may I say "unforgettable". It happen 6 years ago, I was a little girl who doesn't feel any pain. I am the younger daughter, and the only girl to our family, we are happy living together.

My Mission

Everyone of us has a mission to deal with for a purpose or mission that only God knows of it.

My mission in my life is to finished my studies and fulfill my dreams in order to have a good and stable job. So that I can help my parents to their financial need but not only to them but also those needy people and also those street children.
My another mission in my life is to do goods and spread the words of God to the part where there is no teaching of God's word.

Sex Education....

What is it all about?

It is a big scandal when a student is reported that have been seen coming out from a motel with his/her girlfriend/boyfriend. Having sex certainly classified a lot of things and answered so many question we had in our minds.

Nowadays, a lot of teenage pregnancies are being reported and I think one major factor that contributes to this is the lack of knowledge about sex. Many teenagers engages in sex because ofthey are curious. Probably like me whan I still e teenager, they they have a lot of questions that they want to be answered. Bout like me, they probably they did not have sex education in class so they attempt to find the answered for themselves. Unfortunately, in doing so they get added souvenir which they are to have nine months later. It is so depressing to know that many teenage pregnancies could have been prevented if only the youngsters were more knowledgeable about sex and it consequences. And for that reason alone, I strongly believe that sex education will crrupt the teenager's mand, that it is immortal and vulgar to openly discuss it and that they would even appear to be encouraging to do it. I do not agree with them. In fact, researchers have proven that teaching sex education to teenagers has made them aware of the possible censequences of doing it at this time of their lives and this has enlightened them into keeping their virginity till they are older and much more matured at least practicing safe sex.

Courtship Practices Among Students...

The heart is the center of the affective process in an individual. It is also the center of all the emotions in our life. The heart of education is the child and the development of values is a means of educating the heart.

Courtship is the traditional dating period before engagement and marriage. Nowadays, in every schools not only in the city but akso in provinces, courtship among students everts as young loves emerges for those involved.

It is a practiced in the modern was as characterized in the Western society, the usual boy meets a girl is tempered by local tradition of "hiya"(shame) at first for any boy to express his young love. But once it is responded affirmatively, either shown by acts or express by words, the Western methods as seen in imported movies id found to happen. The dating or going to the theatre and social gatherings is done casually in disregard od the Filipino tradition "no dating without a chaperon or companion in the outing".

More often than not, the usual parental consent is no longer needed and the students couple in love secretly so to the meeting places. Such is the impact of Western habits in courtship, that they embrace on the adventure if in love with someone. Yet, this relationship seldom blossoms into marraige, so upon graduation, the students in love go their separate ways.

Learnings.........

Today, we have to present our presentation in promoting the different specialization in our major classes. I choose the specialization where I belong because I think it's easy for me to deliver it and have many ideas about it. It is all about the PCO specialization.
It takes time for me to memorize my presentation. But fortunately and luckily I deliver it very well. I'm so very happy for that..... I hope it's result also will be done successfully. I am so thankful to God, because I've done it very well even if I felt slightly nervous as I deliver my presentation in front of my classmates and also my English teacher named Mrs. Mona Liza Andrew. Thank's God I made it.

I Love My Bestfriend

Everyone of us, has a friend, a friend who will never let you fall down. A friend who can lay a hand to you in times of great darkness of your life and when you feel like falling down!!!!

I just want to tell you how much you mean to me, my dearest friend. I'm so proud of myself because I was given a chance to meet someone like you. I don't know what I would do without a great friend like you. You are the number one best buddy I ever had. Without you, my pathetic life would not be worth living. I would climb the highest mountain, swim the deepest sea, walk across the hottest desert just to tell you how incredibly special your friendship is to me. Here is a line of a song that I will dedicate to you, my dearest friend...."You were my strength when I was weak. You were my voice when I couldn't speak. You were my eyes when I couldn't see. You show the best there was in me... Lifted me up when I couldn't reach-you gave me faith cause you believe".....
In fact, I would do anything for you, my best friend. But if ever the day comes that you have to say goodbye, i have nothing to do but to cry.Whatever happens I will always treasure the laughs and the happy moments we have shared together. Because I am lucky to have you for I know that not all people get the oppurtunity to have a real friend like you and I know I will never have another you in my life. I LOVE YOU MY BESTFRIEND!!!!!

The Best Man Ever.......

You may wander why at my young age I had already a best man with me. I'ts been seven years that I'm longing for him. Actually, three months more to go my life as a high school student will end through God's will.
You know what?... I did my very best in my studies in order to achieve all my goals and aspirations. My best man is my bestfriend, my love, my hero, my savoir, and my life. He is always their for me, in every times that I need someone who could help me to solve my problems. With the presence of my best man I feel the plenary convenient of my life.
It was happen that it was the most loneliest happenings of my life that I couldn't imagine. It was happen on May 27, 2002, it was my sorrowful day, because that day it was te time when my best man had say his goodbye, to me and as well as my family. We are in grief and gloom. I cried so many nights and I only stop crying when my mother explained about the truth of what had happen to my best man. It is very sad to utter that my best man had passed away.
My Best Man was none other than ..... My Beloved Father!

My First Post

I have finally made my new blog today.